Traits of a befriender. Have you got it?

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by Navya Singh, Content Contributor

Yay, you get to volunteer as a befriender! But wait, what are you supposed to do? What qualities do you need? What are the dos and don’ts? Not to worry, we have got just the article to help you! Here is the ultimate guide on how to be a befriender

Tan Erica, a student at SIM, shares her dos and don’ts of being a befriender. Erica spends her free time volunteering, making beautiful cards and spending time with her friends. When not doing that, she can be found at a quaint café enjoying a cup of coffee.

DO NOT

1. Talk about sensitive issues

Avoid sensitive topics such as religion, politics and family unless you are super close to your beneficiary. Stick to lighter topics. Ask about their favourite shows, movies, hobbies etc. If you’re lucky you might find common ground and really get to bond!

2. Overpromise

You might find that your beneficiary really enjoys your visits. As a result, you say perhaps you could visit more often. Do not say that. Do not promise anything until you are sure of it. If you make promises and break them, they tend to remember. And this will harm your relationship…

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First published in Club Rainbow Singapore LinkedIn article.