Celebrating Father’s Day (15 June 2025): Daren’s Fatherhood Journey with Ethan
Daren with Ethan
Caelan (Left), Daren (Centre), Ethan (Right)
This Father’s Day, we celebrate the quiet strength and unwavering love of fathers like Daren Ong – a devoted dad, resilient fighter, and inspiring role model.
At 48, Daren’s life took an unexpected turn when a stroke in December 2024 left the left side of his body paralysed. Once a business owner juggling work and part-time studies, he is now focused on rehabilitation – but above all, he remains a pillar of support for his family.
Daren is a proud father to two boys: 15-year-old Ethan, who was diagnosed with moderate Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) at age 4, and 13-year-old Caelan. For Daren, fatherhood means being present, leading by example, and showing his sons how to face life’s trials with courage and heart.
“I remind myself that the most purposeful thing I can do is to take care of my family,” he shares. “My recent health issues have shown me that time is precious – so I’m doing all I can, for as long as I can.”
Navigating Ethan’s condition comes with its own set of challenges, especially as Ethan faces developmental delays in speech, motor skills, and everyday tasks. But Daren and his family have found invaluable support in Club Rainbow (Singapore). From therapy sessions made accessible through subsidies, to inclusive workshops and events that give Ethan a safe space to explore and grow, Club Rainbow has been a trusted partner in their journey.
“The staff are always kind, compassionate, and willing to help,” Daren says. “These opportunities mean the world to us.”
Balancing caregiving, rehabilitation, and self-care isn’t easy, but Daren makes it a point to find moments of rest and ask for help when needed. “Even a few minutes to close my eyes and breathe helps,” he reflects. He’s thankful for his strong family network – including his parents and sister – who step in when things get overwhelming.
Though Father’s Day wasn’t a big occasion in his childhood, it’s a role he now embraces fully. “I’ve come to realise the importance of celebrating fathers and the bonds we share. Our children look to us – not just for answers, but for how we handle life.”
One of Daren’s most treasured memories with Ethan is simple but full of warmth: carrying his giggling son on his shoulders, watching his face light up with joy, and feeling the soft weight of a sleepy head resting on his own.
To other fathers and father figures, Daren offers this reminder:
“Don’t underestimate the effect of your presence in your child’s life. You teach them just as much by what you do – and also by what you don’t do.”
Happy Father’s Day to all the incredible dads who lead with love, strength, and heart. Today, we celebrate fathers who show up through every challenge and joy. Your quiet strength, patience, and love leave a lasting impact. Thank you for being the steady pillars your children can always count on.
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About Club Rainbow (Singapore)
Established in 1992, Club Rainbow (Singapore) is a non-profit organisation and registered charity with the mission to support and empower children with chronic illnesses, many of whom are with special needs and disabilities, and their families to lead a dignified life and become active contributors to society.
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