Xander’s Journey: Overcoming Challenges with Resilience and Support

Xander Lee

In celebration of Youth Day on 6 July, we shine a spotlight on 17-year-old Xander, a spirited and determined individual who has faced life’s challenges with courage. Diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) in primary school, Xander has had to navigate difficulties that affected his ability to concentrate and manage his emotions. His journey, however, is a testament to perseverance, growth, and the power of support. 

Xander’s condition meant that he often struggled with impulsivity and anger management, which made school life challenging. Easily distracted, focusing on lessons required extra effort, and his academic performance was impacted. To manage his condition, he took medication to help with concentration and impulse control, allowing him to better engage in his studies. 

His family discovered Club Rainbow (Singapore) through a friend, and in 2018, Xander joined the organisation. Since then, Club Rainbow has played a pivotal role in supporting both Xander and his family, offering educational support programmes to aid in his academic journey and providing opportunities through the Talent Development Fund to encourage his personal growth and interests. 

Despite the hurdles, Xander’s perseverance shone through, particularly in his co-curricular activities. One of his proudest achievements was being appointed as the Troop Leader of his school’s Scouts CCA. This leadership role allowed him to oversee the welfare and training of his peers, a remarkable milestone considering the challenges he faced in his early secondary years. 

Xander's dedication to learning has also been recognised by Club Rainbow. He is a proud recipient of the Education Awards 2025 under the "Spirit of Learning" category – a reflection of his resilience and positive attitude towards his educational journey. This year, he has also stepped into the spotlight as a co-emcee for the Education Awards 2025 Ceremony, where he helped honour the achievements of his peers. 

Looking ahead, Xander’s family hopes that he will continue to pursue his passions and always strive to do his best. His journey is an inspiration to others facing similar challenges, and his message to them is simple yet powerful: “Be better than you were yesterday, every day.” 

Through resilience, determination, and the unwavering support of those around him, Xander continues to pave his own path forward, proving that challenges can be overcome with the right mindset and support system. 

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